I believe that a lot of what passes for low self-esteem these days is nothing more than a person needing responsibilities. A school´s principal told me that after tracking students´records for more than seventeen years has found that the factor that most contributes to outstanding achievemente is not intelligence, financial background or parental involvement- it´s chores.

Children who are required to do chores develop positive self-esteem. Kids feel they´re contributing something of value that makes a difference. They feel competent because they´re developing skills and have tangible proof of their abilities. They feel in control because they´re taking charge of their environment instead of being its victim. They develop courage when they conquer challenging tasks such as mowing the lawn, and chores force kids (particularly teens) to communicate with their family so they feel connected instead of isolated. As a result of all of the above, children develop a healthy self-concept.